It’s normal to feel stressed about midterms. Sometimes stress can be a good motivator, but too much can take a toll on our performance and well-being. Here are some things you can do if you’re feeling overwhelmed.
1. Make a list
Checking in with yourself can help you slow down when you’re feeling overwhelmed. Try grabbing a notebook or a scrap of paper to do a “brain dump”. Write down everything on your mind that is causing you to feel stressed, anxious or overwhelmed. This could include things like studying, upcoming exams, deadlines, group projects, job stress, relationships, finances or general uncertainties.
Listing your stressors out on paper will help shed light on what is causing you the most stress right now. It’s also important to know that this exercise may also cause you to feel overwhelmed, and it’s okay if you need to take a deep breath, step away and come back to your list later on. The goal of doing this isn’t to create a to-do list or tackle every single item, it’s just to get a better understanding of things that might be contributing to stress.
2. Break it down
After you’ve created a list and can identify how the various items make you feel, ask yourself why.
For example, if the most stressful item on your list is an upcoming assignment, ask yourself why. Maybe it feels like there is too much to do and not enough time or perhaps you’re not sure how to begin. Once you’ve determined why the items on your list are causing stress, you can start breaking them up into smaller tasks to tackle. Start by focusing on things you can accomplish within 5 to 10 minutes. It could be as simple as emailing your professor with questions, organizing your citations or creating an intro slide in PowerPoint.
3. Prioritize your time
If you’re currently working through multiple assignments, projects or exams, it may feel like there isn’t enough time in the day to get everything done. If this is the case, start by writing down each assignment, deadline and exam date. Use this list to plan your time backwards. Prioritize your work based on deadlines and the amount of time you think it will take to complete each task.
Jot down when you’re going to work on each task and commit to a schedule. While creating a roadmap in advance may not give you more time, it can help you visualize exactly where your time is going and how best to use it. We recommend using a planner or testing out apps like Todoist.
4. Maintain your energy
When we’re overwhelmed, even simple tasks can feel exhausting. Make sure you’re covering the basics by using HALT: are you Hungry, Angry, Lonely or Tired? If the answer is yes, take care of that need first.
Hunger can satisfy both our physical and emotional needs. Eating regularly can also help you maintain your energy and motivation to keep going. Plan ahead by packing snacks or preparing meals in advance. If you sometimes forget to eat, set a timer to remind you to take a break at meal times.
It’s normal to feel agitated, angry or frustrated during midterms. However, it’s important to find ways to move through your anger in a healthy way. Physical activity, movement, meditation and creative outlets can help. Find what works best for you, and be sure to make time to enjoy activities that help you work through feelings of stress and frustration.
We tend to feel lonely or isolated when we don’t feel understood or have withdrawn into ourselves as a coping mechanism. If you’re feeling lonely, ask yourself if you’ve reached out to anyone recently. Calling a friend, visiting a loved one, making time to be social or connecting with a mental health provider can all help ease feelings of isolation and loneliness.
While it can be tempting to pull all-nighters, prioritizing your sleep schedule to ensure you’re getting 7 to 9 hours of rest each night can be more helpful in the long run. Try to use the “do not disturb” function on your phone and put away all of your devices at least one hour before bed. If you’re tired during the day, consider taking a 15- to 20-minute nap. You can even use the nap pods located at the Rec Center or the Wellness Suite in Wardenburg Health Center.
It’s a good practice to address these needs regularly before they become an issue. Pushing ourselves to the limits and ignoring our basic needs is a quick way to experience burnout, which could slow us down even more. Taking care of yourself will not only help you, but it will also empower you to accomplish the other items on your list.
5. Do the next right thing
If you’re looking at your list, and your mind is still racing or you’re still feeling overwhelmed, try focusing on doing the “next right thing.”
The “next right thing” is the next simple step that is going to move you forward. Sometimes that means attending to the basics (HALT); other times it means tackling an item on your list.
If the next right thing feels too hard to pin down, check in with yourself again. What feels the most overwhelming? Can you break it down into pieces? Can you tackle a small piece of it right now? Most importantly, have you done a HALT check-in and taken care of your basic needs?
Repeating this check-in process any time you’re feeling stressed out or overwhelmed can help you identify the next right thing.
6. Celebrate small wins
Allow yourself to bask in the success of small victories. Whether you’ve been studying for one exam or several, it’s important to acknowledge the progress you’ve made. Here are a few ways you can celebrate the end of midterms:
7. Reach out for support
If you’re feeling stuck, having a hard time or aren’t sure what to do next, it’s okay to ask for help. Remember that you can reach out to friends, family, peers and professors for support.