3 tips to make new friends this fall

1. Connect with others who share your interests 

CU Boulder might feel like a large university at first, but finding your crew can make it feel a whole lot smaller. Whether you're into hiking, gaming, crafting or anything in between, there are tons of student groups, events and programs built around shared interests and identities. 

Review these options to meet others with similar hobbies and interests. Also, don’t hesitate to try something new! College is a great time to discover new passions and explore your identity. 

2. Be bold and introduce yourself 

This semester, challenge yourself to be the one who says “hey” first. Whether it’s in class, at an event or just waiting in line for coffee, introducing yourself can be the spark that kicks off a great convo (and maybe a new friendship). 

It might feel awkward at first, but most people are just waiting for someone to break the ice—why not let it be you? Here are a few places where you can try out this strategy:    

  Your residence hall or neighborhood  
You never know what you might have in common with your floormates or neighbors! Whether you live on or off campus, make it a goal to connect with someone new each day. Ask them to join you for dinner, walk to class or check out a campus event or an event in your residence hall together.  

  Student events   
Events like Buffalo Nites, Buffs After Dark and Queer Cheer are great for socializing and getting to know others. Introduce yourself to those around you, ask where they are from and what their favorite class is this semester.  

  Extracurricular activities   
Depending on what you do with your time outside of class, there are many other ways to make friends. Consider joining a student organization, working on campus or volunteering. If you meet someone new and hit it off, ask if they want to hang out later.   

3. Know that it can take time 

Finding your people doesn’t always happen overnight, and that’s okay. You can take small steps every day to build connections and feel more at home on campus. Here are a few things to keep in mind: 

  Focus on the positives: When you meet someone new, focus on what you have in common—whether it’s a shared hobby, sense of humor, or just the same favorite study spot. 

  Make space for social time: School comes first, but don’t forget to take breaks and hang out. Events, clubs or even a quick chat between classes can go a long way. 

  Keep showing up: Deep friendships take time. Even if you’re just saying hey to someone in class or at the Rec Center, those small moments can grow into something more. 

Find support 

Center for Student Involvement  
Join student organizations, find leadership opportunities and learn about other ways to get involved at the Center for Student Involvement.  

Peer Wellness Coaching 
Connect with fellow students for one-on-one conversations about well-being, goal setting and navigating college life. 

Service Learning & Impact in Community Engagement 
Learn new skills, gain experience, make a difference and meet people with similar passions through volunteering. 

Recreation Services  
Try new fitness classes, play intramural sports, explore Colorado with Outdoor Pursuits or attend an Inclusive Rec event.  

Center for Cultural Connections & Community 
Engage with programs that build community, inspire learning and grow leaders who value identity, diversity, equity and social justice.