This page provides information on how to help when someone discloses a traumatic event. This could include but is not limited to serious accidents, assault, bias motivated incidents, disasters, discrimination, harassment, hazing, intimate partner abuse, sexual assault, sexual harassment, and stalking.
How to Help
The way a person responds to a survivor matters. One's response can impact if the survivor will seek out further help and can also impact their healing process. Research shows that CU community members want to help but sometimes do not know how to respond. OVA can help you learn skills on how to provide a supportive response and learn more about resources on and off campus.
As a friend, staff or faculty member, or parent supporting a survivor it can be helpful to learn about the range of responses to trauma to help you better understand and support the survivor. There is no one right way to respond to trauma and impact can vary from person to person. OVA can help you learn more about the range of common trauma responses.
When supporting a survivor of trauma it is not uncommon for people to feel impacted themselves. That can include having feelings of anger, distrust, changes in world view, disbelief, confusion and more. In addition, one may have thoughts and feelings about how a survivor should be reacting or opinions about reporting processes. It is important to support survivors in what they believe to be best for them, and it may also be important for you to get support regading your own reactions.
Faculty and Staff Resources
Faculty and staff often call the Office of Victim Assistance asking how to a respond to a student who has disclosed a trauma. In addition, academics may be adversely affected by the current impact the survivor is facing. You can learn more about how to respond to a student who has disclosed a trauma, how to get them resourced, and how OVA can provide academic advocacy.