Care and Concern

During college, students may face many new experiences and challenges. These can range from mental health issues to hospitalizations and family emergencies. These challenges can be unexpected and may affect academic success and overall well-being.    

If you notice a friend acting differently or struggling, know that you can play a part in getting them support. Being a member of a sorority or fraternity allows students to observe and act when a brother or sister needs help—even something small can help support someone.   

Concerned about a friend? Here's how you can help

Campus resources

If your friend needs additional support, shows clear signs of distress, or you are feeling uneasy after an interaction with them, refer them to SOAS.  Anyone can refer a student, and there are three ways to do so:   

SOAS is available to provide individualized support to students, connecting them with campus partners, community resources and support systems. If you are unsure whether to refer your friend, contact SOAS for guidance. Some of the more common reasons to refer a student to SOAS include, but are not limited to:   

  • Concern for a student’s mental health
  • Hospitalization (physical or mental health)
  • Suicidal ideation
  • Harm to self or others
  • Loss of a loved one 
  • Family emergency
  • Food insecurity
  • Housing insecurity
  • Financial concerns
  • Threatening behavior   

Know that SOAS is a non-confidential service. This means if you disclose that you or someone else has been impacted by sexual misconduct, protected-class discrimination or harassment, intimate partner violence, stalking or related retaliation, SOAS is required to share that information with the Office of Institutional Equity and Compliance (OIEC) for outreach regarding support and reporting options. You are not required to respond to OIEC. If you need support, OIEC provides a list of resources, including confidential assistance. If you have questions before you want to submit this type of information, please contact the confidential Office of Victim Assistance.   

Basic Needs Center (BNC)

The Basic Needs Center is a campus care collective for students seeking assistance accessing essential food, housing and resources. Plus, it provides support in emergencies. The center also offers education on navigating local and national food and emergency housing resources.

CAPS provides free, confidential mental health services for CU Boulder students to address a variety of concerns, including academics, anxiety, depression, substance use, relationships, body image and more. Students can call their 24/7 support line at 303-492-2277.